Key takeaways from this podcast are:
If I look at a relationship (marriage, partnership etc) as a flight, the couple are the two pilots flying this plane, on first class are the children, on business class are the parents and maybe siblings, on economy are friends, colleagues etc. How can I as a pilot and co-pilot create boundaries to protect the wellbeing of everyone on this flight? How can I as a pilot and co-pilot protect the wellbeing of the couple by making sure that people outside the cockpit do not enter the cockpit without permission?
Boundaries are not only there to keep people out, they are also there to protect the people within the cockpit or relationship
Clear boundaries are needed to maintain peace, happiness and wellbeing of everyone on the flight.